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Why is there an increasing trend in the violence against women? Have men lost their sane in the recent times? Why there isn’t any popular phrase called “Violence against men?” Why isn’t there?
Let us rewind back 3500 years and put the same questions to the great religions which governed our polity for centuries? If Hinduism answers saying “we are egalitarians”, then ask it why there hasn't been a single goddess taking avatar like Vishnu? Also ask it, why no one questioned the man, when ' Maha Pathni' was left in the woods? Don’t leave it with that, also ask why Draupadi was a wager material, why didn’t Yudhishthira use his brothers for the same game of dice? If you think Christianity or Islam will answer, “Not us, it was them who gave less respect” then ask them why there hasn’t been any woman prophet in their ages of history? If you think the valiant Sikhism showed no partiality then ask them why there hasn’t been a single women guru in the whole of history.
By now Gods might be angry, so let us start putting some questions on our fellow humans. Why wasn’t a queen given the power to dispatch outside the palace? Of all the 3 Sangam ages and rest of the time in the Tamil Literature, I have just heard about Avvaiar, that's it for the whole of last 3500 years ? For all the medieval time poetry I have read, I haven't come across even a single women poet, but, why? (Now of course we have our every own Lady Gaga). Why is there so much low representation of women? Where did we lose women in the ‘out-of-home’ world? The questions just remain unanswered for years.
I define a philosopher as someone who can clearly distinguish between good and bad, justice and injustice but when one of the greatest philosopher of the first "democratic land" said "Women are defective by Nature", I was little surprised and startled as well. And this sentence of Aristotle helps us understand how the whole idea of "lesser of human" was sown in the hearts of mankind and how it has been nurtured in the minds of people at every stages of the history.
And this idea holding hands with the natures principle of dominance of "Stronger over weaker" took humans down the gloomy lane called rape, molestation and eve-teasing.
What?
What would you do if you are battered, what would you do if you are branded with hot iron on your cheeks? What would you do if you are beat so much that your skull gets fractured? What would you do? Baby Afreen didn't know what to do, she just passed away. The only mistake the three year old did was to be born as a girl.
That was just one such case, on the whole the crimes against women are on the high in India and the National crime records reported in 1998 that the growth rate of crimes against women would be higher than the population growth by 2010 and I guess that was second report that gave an under-estimated projection other than the fiscal and monetary deficit report of Reserve Bank of India and Ministry of Finance. To simplify, In our national capital for every 26 minutes a woman is molested, for every 34 minutes a rape takes place and for every 43 minutes a woman is kidnapped. More than 8% of the total Indian Penal Code crimes are against women and the other stat says that most of the women crimes go unreported! What the hell, huh?
From Panjali times women have always been mistreated but that's not the questions. What is the level of victimization is the question. When a pub "helper" is raped by 6 men then there is something serious. When Juvenile girls are raped every now and then then there is something serious happening in the society.
How?
Now, let us weave our imagination. Let us imagine a world where everyone is, Krishna, Jesus, Gandhi and Luther King. How is it? Boring right? Now let us imagine a world full of universal villains like Hitler, Idi Amin and many more. How is it? I know by this time you would have prayed for the successful execution of “End of World 2012” pogrom.
Yes, world was created as a heterogeneous set and therefore force your heart to accept the fact. But, this shouldn’t be an excuse for the violence propagated, the criminals in this case are the sociopaths who are suffering from serious complex issues and law should do its duty with no excuse.
How about violence against "scantily clad women"? Is it justified? No, they should be punished as well. But still, the women carry some percent of responsibility as well. If you want to live in a complete fashion then you should be prepared to take up the consequence of it as well. If you are eating meat before an unleashed dog, what happens? A few dogs eyeball it and a few will fight with you to swindle your food. You cannot blame the dog fully, if you are eating meat before a dog, you should have a stick to shoo it as well. Right? Yes. And the same holds here as well. Free-will is a fire and if you don’t know how to use it then you don’t deserve to live free.
And Then What?
Molestation happens. Rape happens. And Then What? Victim takes it to district magistrate. Someone loses. They appeal again. Now it is in high court. Someone loses. They appeal it again. What now? Someone takes it Supreme Court. Then what? Iteration continues on and on. Let’s say, the probability works and the verdict is in favor of victim. But while all these happen, most of the criminal's would have kicked the bucket. Now, what should we do?
Molestation happens. Rape happens. And Then What? Media covers the story. We watch all the news relating to it. We see the girl/women who get victimized. We see her cry. She tries to hide. But still, somehow we get to see her on screen. Later, after a week, we see police arrest someone. We see a fully covered man walking. We see him being taken into the white police van then what? Yes, that would be the last time you see him. But, the ill-used girl/women carrying the wound mentally and physically is deemed untouchable not by birth, but by someone's touch. Does she deserve it?
What should we do?
What should we do? Let me categorize into short-term and long-term goals.
Short term goals,
• We should put a separate court in place to deal with this special type of crime. Fastening up of justice and execution of the same should be done.
• All the National highways should be decorated with the "thug behind the bar" banner and saying, "Raped!” Yes, media should inflict fear in the minds of the potential criminals and their family.
Long term goals,
• Stop taking about equality, feminism, reservation for women and all the others. Only if you behave like equal being, you will get equality.
• Men, neither patronize nor subjugate. Let them compete on a leveled field.
Short-term goals will heal the wounds and long term goals will be a vaccine of the society. As it took its own time to eradicate polio, it might take its but I’m sure this will be cent percent efficient like polio vaccine.
World will change someday, but that day we might not be here to see the vivid change, but, that doesn’t mean that we shouldn’t sow the seeds of Change. If not us let at least the future generation enjoy the toils of our social revolution.
Ray of hope is over there and we should move towards it.
Hopefully,
Alagiri Samy.S
* Special thanks to Gopikrishnan.NS for his valuable inputs
* Intention of this post is not to hurt feelings of any individual. if I had, I’m sorry.
Why is there an increasing trend in the violence against women? Have men lost their sane in the recent times? Why there isn’t any popular phrase called “Violence against men?” Why isn’t there?
Let us rewind back 3500 years and put the same questions to the great religions which governed our polity for centuries? If Hinduism answers saying “we are egalitarians”, then ask it why there hasn't been a single goddess taking avatar like Vishnu? Also ask it, why no one questioned the man, when ' Maha Pathni' was left in the woods? Don’t leave it with that, also ask why Draupadi was a wager material, why didn’t Yudhishthira use his brothers for the same game of dice? If you think Christianity or Islam will answer, “Not us, it was them who gave less respect” then ask them why there hasn’t been any woman prophet in their ages of history? If you think the valiant Sikhism showed no partiality then ask them why there hasn’t been a single women guru in the whole of history.
By now Gods might be angry, so let us start putting some questions on our fellow humans. Why wasn’t a queen given the power to dispatch outside the palace? Of all the 3 Sangam ages and rest of the time in the Tamil Literature, I have just heard about Avvaiar, that's it for the whole of last 3500 years ? For all the medieval time poetry I have read, I haven't come across even a single women poet, but, why? (Now of course we have our every own Lady Gaga). Why is there so much low representation of women? Where did we lose women in the ‘out-of-home’ world? The questions just remain unanswered for years.
I define a philosopher as someone who can clearly distinguish between good and bad, justice and injustice but when one of the greatest philosopher of the first "democratic land" said "Women are defective by Nature", I was little surprised and startled as well. And this sentence of Aristotle helps us understand how the whole idea of "lesser of human" was sown in the hearts of mankind and how it has been nurtured in the minds of people at every stages of the history.
And this idea holding hands with the natures principle of dominance of "Stronger over weaker" took humans down the gloomy lane called rape, molestation and eve-teasing.
What?
What would you do if you are battered, what would you do if you are branded with hot iron on your cheeks? What would you do if you are beat so much that your skull gets fractured? What would you do? Baby Afreen didn't know what to do, she just passed away. The only mistake the three year old did was to be born as a girl.
That was just one such case, on the whole the crimes against women are on the high in India and the National crime records reported in 1998 that the growth rate of crimes against women would be higher than the population growth by 2010 and I guess that was second report that gave an under-estimated projection other than the fiscal and monetary deficit report of Reserve Bank of India and Ministry of Finance. To simplify, In our national capital for every 26 minutes a woman is molested, for every 34 minutes a rape takes place and for every 43 minutes a woman is kidnapped. More than 8% of the total Indian Penal Code crimes are against women and the other stat says that most of the women crimes go unreported! What the hell, huh?
From Panjali times women have always been mistreated but that's not the questions. What is the level of victimization is the question. When a pub "helper" is raped by 6 men then there is something serious. When Juvenile girls are raped every now and then then there is something serious happening in the society.
How?
Now, let us weave our imagination. Let us imagine a world where everyone is, Krishna, Jesus, Gandhi and Luther King. How is it? Boring right? Now let us imagine a world full of universal villains like Hitler, Idi Amin and many more. How is it? I know by this time you would have prayed for the successful execution of “End of World 2012” pogrom.
Yes, world was created as a heterogeneous set and therefore force your heart to accept the fact. But, this shouldn’t be an excuse for the violence propagated, the criminals in this case are the sociopaths who are suffering from serious complex issues and law should do its duty with no excuse.
How about violence against "scantily clad women"? Is it justified? No, they should be punished as well. But still, the women carry some percent of responsibility as well. If you want to live in a complete fashion then you should be prepared to take up the consequence of it as well. If you are eating meat before an unleashed dog, what happens? A few dogs eyeball it and a few will fight with you to swindle your food. You cannot blame the dog fully, if you are eating meat before a dog, you should have a stick to shoo it as well. Right? Yes. And the same holds here as well. Free-will is a fire and if you don’t know how to use it then you don’t deserve to live free.
And Then What?
Molestation happens. Rape happens. And Then What? Victim takes it to district magistrate. Someone loses. They appeal again. Now it is in high court. Someone loses. They appeal it again. What now? Someone takes it Supreme Court. Then what? Iteration continues on and on. Let’s say, the probability works and the verdict is in favor of victim. But while all these happen, most of the criminal's would have kicked the bucket. Now, what should we do?
Molestation happens. Rape happens. And Then What? Media covers the story. We watch all the news relating to it. We see the girl/women who get victimized. We see her cry. She tries to hide. But still, somehow we get to see her on screen. Later, after a week, we see police arrest someone. We see a fully covered man walking. We see him being taken into the white police van then what? Yes, that would be the last time you see him. But, the ill-used girl/women carrying the wound mentally and physically is deemed untouchable not by birth, but by someone's touch. Does she deserve it?
What should we do?
What should we do? Let me categorize into short-term and long-term goals.
Short term goals,
• We should put a separate court in place to deal with this special type of crime. Fastening up of justice and execution of the same should be done.
• All the National highways should be decorated with the "thug behind the bar" banner and saying, "Raped!” Yes, media should inflict fear in the minds of the potential criminals and their family.
Long term goals,
• Stop taking about equality, feminism, reservation for women and all the others. Only if you behave like equal being, you will get equality.
• Men, neither patronize nor subjugate. Let them compete on a leveled field.
Short-term goals will heal the wounds and long term goals will be a vaccine of the society. As it took its own time to eradicate polio, it might take its but I’m sure this will be cent percent efficient like polio vaccine.
World will change someday, but that day we might not be here to see the vivid change, but, that doesn’t mean that we shouldn’t sow the seeds of Change. If not us let at least the future generation enjoy the toils of our social revolution.
Ray of hope is over there and we should move towards it.
Hopefully,
Alagiri Samy.S
* Special thanks to Gopikrishnan.NS for his valuable inputs
* Intention of this post is not to hurt feelings of any individual. if I had, I’m sorry.